#10 Relationship with Others

 Relationships with others

EBA Exercise

Hi Guy ! I am Jia Jun. This is actually my last blog. Thanks for reading my blog, Miss Lisha.  Let's get in to the main topic we are going to discuss today. Relationship, is a connection between two people.

However, in our life, there are always some relationship is broke due to some reason, for example, couple or friend that relationship is broke due to fight or misunderstanding. So, on this point, how should we rebuild the relationship if we want. 

Do u still remember the teacher that trying to false accusation to me. I actually hate her a lot before this and I decide to hate her till the end of my life. So, obviously our relationship is broke. However, after one talk that given by my lecturer, miss Lisha, I have change this mindset. She said that forgiveness is something harder than hate but more meaningful. Others, she said if we keep the hate with us, we will never be happy.  So, I decide to forgive her. On the moment I decide this, my shoulder suddenly feel free and light.

Next, I am going to talk about the steps that how I rebuild the relationship after forgive her.

First, I put down my hate. On this step, it is not simply put down the hate. I try to memorized back what she do to me, and in the memory, I look at her face and say I know you do this to me because you might fear to accept the consequences but what you do is actually wrong as my confident level change due to this. However, I choose to forgive you and wish that you can have good life too. 

Second, I try to contact her after I clear all the negative emotion. I talked to her about the case, however, I do not scold her or anything. I mentioned that I understand why she do that, and I do also mentioned that I already forgive her.

Then, I received the sincere apologies from her. Lastly, we have a meal together and this relationship is rebuild. Although  it is not as good as how it was, at least the relationship do not become worse. The most important thing is that I finally release my hate, bad idea and become a happier Jia Jun.

That all for my blog, the last blog end here. I would like to thanks for everything and let's be positive together.